self love and victim mentality

The new age brought with it the idea of positive thought.  So many of us decided we would now love ourselves and think only positive thoughts.....so we found ourselves back where we started.  The Ego was still in full swing and the positive thoughts were no longer working.

As of late a new ides has surfaced 'the secret' and now many are so concerned over the 'law of attraction' once again......and many others are finding their life is still not really working for them.

Why?

SImple.  The ego and it's voice in your head is never going to be silenced.  We are always going to have judgemental, cutting thoughts and to try and stop them or deny them doesn not and will not work!   The Ego had a purpose as we became an individual and now it is like a little child. 

So why deny it? 

if you ignore a child, it only gets louder! 
If you turn to the screaming child and say "I hear you and I love you"  then the child finds contentment and silencec itself.

Speak that way to your ego (those thoughts you think you are going to get rid of, feel ashamed of or feel you shouldn't be having)

Never assume being spiritual is to float around on gossamer wings being 'perfect'.  We all already are perfect.  Plain and simple.  Perfect.

To be spiritual and fully enlightened is to accept every part of yourself in its totality.  EVERYTHING.  It is not to go saving others nor saving the world.  That is the thought of ego.

To feel another needs saving is to feel they are incapable of learning what you just learned.  So often we focus on the lives of others to avoid evolving our own.

Today look at how much your ego speaks.  Just observe your thoughts.....do not try to change them. 

The idea is to add another thought, not take away or stop the ones you are having. 

Change the volume of the inner voices rather than deciding you are not whole already.

Ego is the voice that whines, argues, judges, blames, feels like a vicitm (things being done to you)

The Self is the voice that knows you are allow to have a bad day.  You are allowed to feel (feelings are the gift of being human)  However you are never allowed to take your bad day or blame your feelings on anyone else.